Stop Arguing, Start Being
“Waste no more time arguing what a good man should be. Be one.” – Marcus Aurelius
Whatever the moment requires—meet it with integrity and thoughtfulness.
Not with impulse. Not with emotion. Not with ego.
Let principle guide you, not pressure.
Let courage lead, not fear.
Outcomes are rarely fully within your control.
But your response? That’s always yours to own.
When the outcome arrives, whether it favors you or not—greet it with gratitude.
Resist the urge to complain.
Reject the impulse to blame.
Futile resistance only invites unnecessary suffering.
Wasting energy on what you cannot change weakens your ability to influence what you can.
Act with clarity.
Respond with composure.
Let go of the rest.